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That doesn’t mean I think you should give him a call, but don’t be too hard on yourself for wanting to put an end to your loneliness by returning to a situation that, while painful, at least provided you with concomitant rewards.

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I went along but after a while realized that I am miserable most of the time due to the lack of an emotional component.

I broke it off but have been even more miserable ever since. He just wants to go back and just enjoy each other’s company “without complications.” Most of my friends think I am insane. I just know that if I go back “on his terms” it will be a short-lived bliss and then resentment again.

The other thing you get to do is let go of your dream that your son will be happy in a heterosexual relationship.

That’s not to say he may never settle down with a woman, or that he won’t ever be happy in a relationship, merely that whatever relationship your son is in will never be heterosexual by virtue of the fact that your son is not heterosexual.

” and “wouldn’t it be better if he, well, not denied that part of himself but gave that nice girl I told you about, the Smiths’ daughter, a call sometime? And yet queer people exist, and thrive, and come out, and date, and have fun, and commit to one another, and form beautiful, strengthening communities.

It’s not all persecution and suffering, I promise you.

I have no suggestions for improving the framing of your response, but I do recommend asking yourself how much time you’re willing to spend debating him if he comes back with anything other than, “Thanks, I hadn’t thought about it like that before.” Q.

I know what I ought to do, I just can’t: I dated a guy for slightly less than a year and had the misfortune of falling for him really badly. He wanted to keep the relationship more casual, even though monogamous.

You certainly can send that message if you like—the script you suggested is perfectly polite—but you’re under no obligation to correct the views of every misguided guy on Ok Cupid.